Thursday, May 30, 2013

Small Town Framingham 1951 Senior Prom


The Senior prom was at the Memorial Building, our parents could observe from the balcony.  It was the last dance with my Dad, who died that year.  I was a Junior , my date was +Mike Curley, he was so handsome!
Do you recognize the faces of the past? +Dulio Civetenga leads the way.  Note the shape of the F for Framingham, +Judy Builing Hoss is in the front row.  I am in the front row behind her and a little to her left, and to your right
Can you see +Richard Burke counting from Dulio he is the fourth back.  We went to Vaughn Munroe's Meadows on Route 9 for dinner and dancing!   It was such fun!

Tuesday, May 28, 2013

Small Town Framingham, Bob Jachowicz , Mr Framingham

Last night I learned we lost a great Framingham teacher, artist, coach, family man.... our tears for his family ....

Framingham's Bob Jachowicz, football coach, teacher, artist dies at age 84

http://m.metrowestdailynews.com/wkdMetroWest/pm_32191/contentdetail.htm?contentguid=qioHdMke

Monday, May 27, 2013

Small Town Framingham, Father;s Day and memories of the homes we grew up in.

Sears, Roebuck Catalog of Houses, 1926: Small Houses of the Twenties - An Unabridged Reprint   If Dad came from Framingham ( or many of the towns around here) he may have lived in one of these homes...

MANY OF THE HOMES ALONG HOLLIS STREET CAME FROM SEARS, ROEBUCK, just look at them as you cruise down the street, and then....drive up the other older streets in town and you will still see the homes from the catalogue...Bungalows and more, maybe some are reversed front doors, or stucco or wood, some have screened porches, but, inside they were all the same....depending on the style...

+Arlene Scansaroli Chao, +Marie Piccinini Carol, +Lorraine Rossi,  they had homes that were similar in layout.....our home was like the one behind us on Waushakum Blvd, owned by  +Paul DeChamps and his wife.  It was a different time, a different culture, a different world....We grew up at a special time in history...one of the worst wars, and one of the best peace times, we thought there would NEVER BE ANOTHER WAR, BECAUSE THIS WAR WAS SO BAD, SO LONG, AND SO TERRIBLE! 

Small Town Framingham, and the tunnel under Grand Central Station

Many years ago, when I was growing up in Framingham, Mass., I wondered who I would someday marry .  I never wondered beyond that to my children or my grandchildren, does anyone?  I am sure some do....  Then one day I woke up ........ I had grandchildren ....my oldest grandson, Alexander Gow, is living in New York , working on "the tunnel' as a concrete safety engineer.  He graduated from Wentworth in Boston, Mass. The first year, when my newly graduated grandson told me he was working underground, I was really worried, but time has helped me handle that.....then he told me  that the "sandhogs", called him  "hey kid!"  The sandhogs are the great big men who work as laborers in the tunnel, big from the type of work they do all day....I wondered if they would squash him, but he has managed to get through that too!  (He is about 6'5" and slender...)  So a shout out ... Hey Alex...keep that tunnel safe!   Here is the link to the tunnel scene underground in New York.

http://video.wired.com/watch/the-window-nyc-subway-east-side-access?c=browse&per_page=200&page=2

Wednesday, May 22, 2013

Small Town Framingham, what we did on weekends in summer

This could not have been our car, it must have belonged to Uncle Harry, or Arthur?  The family is in the background having a picnic, along the side of the road.  On weekends we went to the beach or to Old Man of the Mountain.  My mother had a big family of about 13 brothers and sisters.  The sisters were so close especially during the war, when the men went away for years.  This is late 1940's....and I think it was...on the way to Old Man of the Mountain, in New hampshire.

Monday, May 20, 2013

Small Town Framingham, dancin the Charleston!

This was a Charleston dance song!  My parents danced to it, in the 40's in our home at 604 Hollis Street, Framingham, Mass. They went dancing at Chicken Pete's Saturday nights,  I believe that was in Bellingham, and I baby sat my brother +Frank Pizzeri, while we listened to The Shadow, or The FBI, or was of those great radio programs of the time.  Have you read my book, it is full of little memories and big memories of the time...

Sunday, May 19, 2013

Small Town Framingham, perfect "kids" time ...in those days

memories.....of the Hollis Theater,when Teddy Bears walked and elephants talked....

Small Town Framingham, outgrowing Hollis Theater

I think that we saw this at the St George, once we started  grades 7.8.9 we started going to the St. George, it was across from the park down town....next to Perlmutters and in front of the Kendall Hotel... the Wellworth was on the right as you faced the theater....

Small Town Framingham Hollis Theater feature cartoon

won't we do this again for our children....???  Hollis Street Theater entertainment 1943...44?

Friday, May 17, 2013

Small Town Framingham 40 years after graduation


Faces of Framingham 40 years after high school graduation.  A reunion at the + Sheraton Tara Hotel, for those that could make it.  I am in the third row seated at the far right.  I picked up + Henry Belloli's name tag and started wearing it, so he had to stand on my left.... to try and grab his name tag back...!

Thursday, May 16, 2013

Small Town Framingham from tomboy to boysgirl

 
The top picture, is Waushakum Blvd.  Paul DeChamps and his wife lived in the bungalow , the next house on the right as you go down Waushakum Blvd.  note that there is no traffic, little to see
I am at the edge of our driveway in my tomboy clothes probably getting ready to go 'buck up' in the field down the street.  I was lucky usually the boys let me play, although I was a " clumsy girl"!
 
After my mother and I talked, about playing baseball and foot ball and not a good idea to get tackled by boys anymore...the picture at the bottom shows the tomboy now a' boysgirl.'..note Dads car, purchased just before the war....probably a 1941 Plymouth, which stayed with us til he bought a new car around 1952, a Dodge..

When The Swallows Come Back To Capistrano (The Ink Spots, 1940)

This was a big hit, playing on the big 78 records on the big record players.  I don't think we had portable radios yet, at least not in the 1940's

Snall Town Framingham Bugs Bunny

Hollis Street theater, cartoon break....this is the kind of cartoon we saw.  The old theater is still there if you look for what appears to be a marquee...you might find it..

Wednesday, May 15, 2013

Small Town Framingham, Jerry Lee Lewis Little Richard Ray Charles 25th Grammy Awards 1983 What'...

And.....we thought that music was wild with Jerry Lee and Little Richard!

SMALL TOWN FRAMINGHAM JERRY LEE LEWIS with GENE AUTRY - MEXICALI ROSE 1983.avi

 Stay with this, it will make you smile....remembering Jerry Lee Lewis and Gene Autry, over 20 years ago, going back even more...

Small Town Framingham South Of The Border - Gene Autry

Every Saturday for a nickel or a dime......yes, the Hollis theater on Hollis Street featured Gene Autry films at the Saturday matinee, and we crowded in for popcorn, candy, plus Gene and his sidekicks, remember Smiley and Gabby?

Happy Birthday Donald Duck (1984)

Imagine Donald Duck was born this long ago, and everyone still loves him, he never gets old!  He brought a lot of cheer to the world during the Great Depression!

Small Town Framingham Kathryn Grayson, Gordon MacRae - Desert Song

Was it the St George Theater, that lulled me into a beautiful world of magic, as I dreamed of adventure with movies like this.?

Small Town Framingham Home (When Shadows Fall) - Jackie Gleason

We loved Jackie and Art Carney and the crew on Saturday nights they would have us laughing so hard.....then Jackie pulbished a few albums of beautiful music, before we lost his genius to the world.

Small Town Framingham, a long long time ago!

This is what it looked like at + Pezzoni's in Framingham, only the restaurant was there, on the left side and out of the picture.  You can see the car of the time.

+Catherine Porcello, +George Porcello and +Arthur Garceau, Artie's sister +Lana Testa is no where in sight!

Note the view of Waushakum pond from the street.  Boy! It was cold walking by the lake to the Memorial School when we were all this size!

Sunday, May 12, 2013

Small Town Framingham, thinking, the college and me

Have you ever thought about the great ideas you get, just before sleep at night, and in the morning before waking up.   Keep a notepad beside the bed, often a dream should be recorded for reasons yet unknown.

Recently, I had the experience of reading two books that touch each other...Freedoms Forge and An Army at Dawn....the first one is how we mobilized to win the war....I was so proud of our country, then and now to think that we had what we called back then, "the right stuff". I finished the first book, all gung ho,  ( remember that saying?) for the start of the Pulitzer Prize winning trilogy...and fell into depression and dismay, as I read the farce that was the start of the United States entering the 2nd World War.  Don;t dismay...don't let me mislead you....its just that if you have never been in battle, never planned an offensive or defensive, you can't imagine the turmoil, the loss of direction and just abysmal failure that can accompany the finest plan.  Great literature is full of stupendous knowledge in little phrases, such as' the greatest plans of mice and men are often failures' ( in so many words)...reference here if interested...  http://feeds.brighthubeducation.com/brighthub/education/high-school/

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  As I thought of these two books...the television program changed to a discussion of using therapy and meditation to assist our many prisoners who have committed crimes of rage.  These factors came together, I reached the conclusion in my mind once again, that we need to learn from Eastern philosophy, to teach our children at a young age to meditate, to let go of unpleasant events, and to step into a bright world, not a world dimmed by others who have wronged us.

The farce of war, coupled with the injustices we create on each other just makes me stop and think, don't you?

As a former teacher, I could never in a million years encourage my students to peaceful resistance, because there is no such thing as peaceful resistance, think about it.  Is resistance really peaceful?   What I have learned in my life, is that we can't win a battle by sit in's, by demonstrations, and by beating people up, or battering them to our way of thinking.  People have to come to realization.  . The peaceful way to that is meditation.

Another of the accumulated facts this week, that led to my observations this morning is that we have NINE convicted felons whose charge was' domestic terrorist', teaching in our colleges.  At one point in time back in the 50's, the thinking was to give our children a look at the systems of government in the world,......just as I understood it then, it was not to batter them and overpower them when they were the most vulnerable to the ideas that oppose Democracy,rather to educate them to the governmental styles of history, so we could appreciate the freedom of Democracy and our Republic.

By the 60's we had Angela Davis right in Boston University under our very noses preaching the message of Communism.  She obviously  thought that it was the right thing to do, for her own reasons.  I don't know about you, but....there are people who try and teach without conveying their own ideas to forcefully fit  all.  Any professor who takes pride in forcing his or her worldly observations on others by their stature in the classroom has lost the value of being an American.  Teachers bring students to their own conclusions...they don't stuff conclusions down their throats and teach  as rote their ideas to be forged in memory forever.
Learning is learning to observe, study and conclude on your own, a teacher is only a guide to that learning.  a light in the darkness that assists you in your journey to become.

 I had a great education at Framingham State College, which is now a University, some of my professors were outstanding...Dr John Bowler, was most influential in my life among many others.  I was amazed when I discovered that the reason I loved Dr Bowler's classes was his style of didactic teaching.  It so influenced me when I started my first job as a fifth grade teacher in Natick, that I wrote to tell him, my style of teaching would be based on what I learned from him.  His classes were amazing, because he proposed then listened to responses, while presenting the facts, and allowing us to communicate our thoughts... lessons learned   resulted from the participation of the class.  I will never forget this question...."Shall it be guns or butter?" in his economics class as we plunged into his exiting lesson.  Here is a reference for didactic teaching

Education  Didactic method.htm

My observations might seem rambling, I have a holistic view of the world , tying together seemingly unrelated events, but in reality ...as the world actually exists, all events are inter-related, in the hologram of life.  The turmoil in Syria, is threatening to drag the world into the conflict, would it die down quicker if we the world stayed out of it?  Is it worth escalating by our participation?   We have learned some lessons already about choosing sides, it is 'all not what it seems'.

quotationsbook.com/quote/2734
Things are not always what they seem; the first appearance deceives many; the intelligence of a few perceives what has been carefully hidden. Phaedrus

Oh! Shucks!, just conveying my thoughts, but since I am talking to my self, it seems like a lecture...., a voice in the wilderness....do some thinking today, answers never come easy do they?  I will conclude with this amusing voice in the wilderness, piece...http://rjmoeller.com/category/quotes-and-sayings/

Wednesday, May 8, 2013

Framingham House Tour, sounds like fun May 19


The antique farm house across from us is on the tour this year.  It has had a fabulous renovation, you will love it....also.....
Many years ago, Howard built a New York Colonial, all around the Framingham area, wonder if that is one of our houses on the tour this year?  It was a popular house, which I loved.   We re- introduced it in Ashland,  at Great Bend Farm.  Then he got tired of building it and now with all the styles I load on to him, I bet he would love to be building that MOST POPULAR HOUSE AGAIN....!  He says to me, what, which house is that, where do you get all those names?



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Begin forwarded message:
From: Annie Murphy <director@framinghamhistory.org>
Date: 2 Mai 2013 14:25:48 GMT-0400
To: dosevn@aol.com
Subject: Hooray - the Framingham House Tour is back - May 19th
Reply-To: director@framinghamhistory.org
The Framingham History Center Presents: 

House Tour logoThe 12th Annual House Tour 
     Sunday, May 19th
            12 - 5 pm

Our 12th Annual House Tour features a diverse collection of sites representing three decades of New England architecture. Join us as we explore a mix of unique homes from dramatic waterfront contemporary to rural antique farmhouse - each transformed through projects that range from a complete teardown/rebuild, to a third kitchen renovation, to an infusion of colorful cosmetics. 

Three tour stops are located in Saxonville, a historic and thriving mill village. This neighborhood is replete with modern conveniences, vintage charm, and a lovely natural landscape, which you will surely appreciate from inside a dramatic contemporary with walls of glass looking over Lake Cochituate.

Other tour stops include a gracious New York Colonial showcasing the owner's fine carpentry skill... an expanded Campanelli ranch with a luxurious renovation that emphasizes the timeless appeal of single-level living... and no Framingham House Tour would be complete without a stop in the town's rural Northwest quadrant. Visit an inviting farmhouse infused with exciting new ideas from its recent west-coast transplants.

Finally, Mary Ware Dennett, notable suffragette and social reformer from the early 1900s will be portrayed by local storyteller Libby Franck as she welcomes you to her Arts and Crafts period home, built by her husband architect Hartley Dennett.

Complimentary refreshments will be served at the historic First Baptist Church, the longest continuous-use church building in Framingham. As you tour this beautiful sanctuary, note the the intact slave pews...

 Tickets through May 10: $25 (FHC members $20)
Tickets after May 10: $30 (FHC members $25)


or... send check payable to Framingham History Center to PO BOX
               2032, Framingham, MA 01703 c/o Charlene Frary

or...purchase tickets in person at the Edgell Memorial Library, 3 Oak
               Street, Framingham Monday-Friday 9:00-5:00pm.

or...purchase tickets at the NMTWC Credit Union at 969 Concord St,
               Framingham (Old Path Village)

Many thanks to our 2013 House Tour Sponsors:

    Bernardi logo 

Framingham History Center
16 Vernon Street
Framingham, Massachusetts 01703
508-872-3780