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Small Town America, Framingham, a memoir. Travel with me as a 'little detective' trying to make sense of a life few now know. There was a time when some people were afraid to drive a car! When no one wanted a dryer, clothes smelled so good drying out on the line. We had a rag man, milk and bread were delivered, along with coal and ice. The war changed all our lives, before, during and after! Learn so much more, through my eyes way long ago!
Thursday, January 31, 2013
Small Town Framingham Fun at History Center Feb 16, see it here
Small Town Framingham Buddhism/ teaching to the good of life
From my many years of reading, thinking asking questions, and being a school teacher, in Natick and Ashland, Mass., loving every moment of excitement in the eyes of my students, I have come to a conclusion of what is missing in our approach to education.
It is a brave jump for me to state my feelings. I think we came close to this once, because I sponsored a pilot class, teaching meditation at Framingham State to future teachers. ( It was unsuccessful I am guessing because no one ever gave me any feedback, and I never heard anymore about it though I asked. It was disappointing to me of course as the future began to open to my view. I should have inquired more before I sponsored it, but then without knowledge of Buddhism maybe meditation is harder to fathom for many people, especially young people who are caught up with the excitment of their entry into the adult world.) From this lesson in life, which was just a yellow light telling me to pause, think and discover, the little detective of my book has come to this conclusion in her elder years.
I feel strongly that Buddhism might be the missing link to how we help our children form their futures, a better culture, a better society. Buddhism is one of the paths to discovering the mysteries of the world, just as science is. Science is the approach we take in matter, Buddhism is the approach we take in understanding consciousness. We ignore the science of consciousness completely and when we do that we leave the basic floor of education sterile.
If we want to truly teach our children how to handle the world of matter, we need to teach them the power of understanding consciousness. The most important gift, no matter what mental ability a child has, is to learn that there are basic truths about the world, that there are gifts we all have to handle the unthinkable in life. Some people never even begin to understand that because we don't teach it, we regard Buddhism as a religion. It is not a religion, rather a science of understanding consciousness.
What have we to got to lose to put Buddhism along side science as a mandatory subject for future teachers, and required in the curriculum from first grade on? Think of the lives we could save, if youngsters came to a better understanding of their place on earth. Just the Noble Truths, are enough to get one into a fun class for first graders that will help them become good people, and identify sooner the children who will become suicide killers.
In my book, Small Town America Framingham, you will see that my parents nutured me, and encouraged my inquisitiveness. You see the questions common to children which are in fact the Noble Truths of Buddhism.
Intellectuals recognize the benefits of studying Buddhism and Science. Do we have to wait another lifetime to get on the ball and start teaching Buddhism, and stop thinking of it as a competing religion. I welcome your thoughts, and hopefully we can spread this idea that has more to offer to the good than anything else I can think of.
It is a brave jump for me to state my feelings. I think we came close to this once, because I sponsored a pilot class, teaching meditation at Framingham State to future teachers. ( It was unsuccessful I am guessing because no one ever gave me any feedback, and I never heard anymore about it though I asked. It was disappointing to me of course as the future began to open to my view. I should have inquired more before I sponsored it, but then without knowledge of Buddhism maybe meditation is harder to fathom for many people, especially young people who are caught up with the excitment of their entry into the adult world.) From this lesson in life, which was just a yellow light telling me to pause, think and discover, the little detective of my book has come to this conclusion in her elder years.
I feel strongly that Buddhism might be the missing link to how we help our children form their futures, a better culture, a better society. Buddhism is one of the paths to discovering the mysteries of the world, just as science is. Science is the approach we take in matter, Buddhism is the approach we take in understanding consciousness. We ignore the science of consciousness completely and when we do that we leave the basic floor of education sterile.
If we want to truly teach our children how to handle the world of matter, we need to teach them the power of understanding consciousness. The most important gift, no matter what mental ability a child has, is to learn that there are basic truths about the world, that there are gifts we all have to handle the unthinkable in life. Some people never even begin to understand that because we don't teach it, we regard Buddhism as a religion. It is not a religion, rather a science of understanding consciousness.
What have we to got to lose to put Buddhism along side science as a mandatory subject for future teachers, and required in the curriculum from first grade on? Think of the lives we could save, if youngsters came to a better understanding of their place on earth. Just the Noble Truths, are enough to get one into a fun class for first graders that will help them become good people, and identify sooner the children who will become suicide killers.
In my book, Small Town America Framingham, you will see that my parents nutured me, and encouraged my inquisitiveness. You see the questions common to children which are in fact the Noble Truths of Buddhism.
Intellectuals recognize the benefits of studying Buddhism and Science. Do we have to wait another lifetime to get on the ball and start teaching Buddhism, and stop thinking of it as a competing religion. I welcome your thoughts, and hopefully we can spread this idea that has more to offer to the good than anything else I can think of.
Wednesday, January 30, 2013
Small Town America Framingham Buddhism
I didn't set out to write an intellectual novel when I wrote, Small Town America Framingham". On the surface, you will encounter a conversational story of the time as I experienced it. The result of fear of the 2nd World War on children, and the emotions I and my family had regarding our loved ones far away fighting in a brutal war. The questions children ask regarding what is happening around them still remain with me, never far from my thoughts as I watch in the far distant present time the old movies of the war and read books about our men fighting in what seems antiquated clothing, ships, tanks, planes, and discuss with the heroes who still live, the horrors of what they endured. Just revewing my thought illustrates the truth of Buddhism's, Four Noble Truths
Now, as I read, Buddhism and Science, by Alan Wallace/editor I see that I was in reality living the Four Noble Truths. As explained in this book, by His Holiness the Fourteenth Dalai Lama, in his essay, "Understanding and Transforming the Mind".
The Four Noble Truths
1. addresses the nature of suffering
2. the origin of suffering
3. cessation, an attribute of consciousness
4. the path to cessation, one that leads to liberation
I was asking the questions....why are we suffering this war, what caused it, why did the whole word get involved? How would it end, how would we as people of the world liberate ourselves. The Four Noble Truths, we all must do that, it is part of life to wonder, question and hope to find answers, obviously even children's minds operate in the same way, questioning the truths of reality.
Is there any better proof of how Buddhism can contribute to our growing awareness of what makes up the world and how moment to moment we create the world we live in?
My Mom is not with me any longer. She would not be able to answer this question I have bothering me now, so I will ask you. How in the world can our leaders of government justify giving new jets and tanks to a country, like Egypt, in turmoil and on the verge of Civil War. Do we truly want to be responsible for the deaths this equipment could cause by a foreign government that can not be responsible for law and order in its own land?
Now, as I read, Buddhism and Science, by Alan Wallace/editor I see that I was in reality living the Four Noble Truths. As explained in this book, by His Holiness the Fourteenth Dalai Lama, in his essay, "Understanding and Transforming the Mind".
The Four Noble Truths
1. addresses the nature of suffering
2. the origin of suffering
3. cessation, an attribute of consciousness
4. the path to cessation, one that leads to liberation
I was asking the questions....why are we suffering this war, what caused it, why did the whole word get involved? How would it end, how would we as people of the world liberate ourselves. The Four Noble Truths, we all must do that, it is part of life to wonder, question and hope to find answers, obviously even children's minds operate in the same way, questioning the truths of reality.
Is there any better proof of how Buddhism can contribute to our growing awareness of what makes up the world and how moment to moment we create the world we live in?
My Mom is not with me any longer. She would not be able to answer this question I have bothering me now, so I will ask you. How in the world can our leaders of government justify giving new jets and tanks to a country, like Egypt, in turmoil and on the verge of Civil War. Do we truly want to be responsible for the deaths this equipment could cause by a foreign government that can not be responsible for law and order in its own land?
Small Town Framingham, History Center
Did you know that the history center in Framingham on the Common at Framingham Center has collections of many Framingham memorabilia. They even have a post card collection.
Tuesday, January 29, 2013
Thursday, January 24, 2013
Small Town Framingham Dennison news
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Wednesday, January 23, 2013
Small Town Framingham bowling, Chinese food, +Hugh Bartels
Remember the bowling alleys, we had three in Framingham. That was a fun date night. We went to Route 9 in Wellesly for Chinese Food, right? Or we went to China Town in Boston, even though the rumors were that cats were used for the fabulous dishes we got in China Town....Of course China Town was only possible when we got cars to roam around in.
We went to the bumper cars in Wareham before the Bourne bridge, that was so much fun, or to Nantasket beach for a summer Sunday. +Hugh Bartels had a fantastic staff car that had flag holders on the front fenders, where he put swatstikas. Today there would be all kinds of news reporting about that, and if it was right, wrong, or whatever, instead of a teenage joker action...!
We went to the bumper cars in Wareham before the Bourne bridge, that was so much fun, or to Nantasket beach for a summer Sunday. +Hugh Bartels had a fantastic staff car that had flag holders on the front fenders, where he put swatstikas. Today there would be all kinds of news reporting about that, and if it was right, wrong, or whatever, instead of a teenage joker action...!
Sunday, January 20, 2013
Small Town Framingham Burke and Galvani
A note from +Richard Burke whose family owned Burkes garage on Rt 9 , many years ago, near St Patrick's church. Here is his note...
Hi guys,
I saw an obituary in the Boston Globe of Madeline's ( Galvani) recent passing at the age of 97. She was the wife of Francis, the AD, football coach and math teacher at our FHS. She was an avid fan of the Flyers and BC football, and an active parishioner of St Tarcisius Church. This will bring back many good memories. When the Thanksgiving game is played in Framingham, I call the non-emergency line at the FPD and ask "who won the game?" The last two years an Officer Galvani answered the phone. I asked him this Nov. if he were related to our Frank. He is a cousin, I think. I thanked him and the Galvanis for their long service to our town.
Dick
As you can see it is hard to forget the special people that made up " our town " a special memory for coach and math teacher, Francis Galvani. I too remember him well, also Virginia and Lena, the Galvani sisters, who worked with me at Ken's Steak House in the long ago.
Hi guys,
I saw an obituary in the Boston Globe of Madeline's ( Galvani) recent passing at the age of 97. She was the wife of Francis, the AD, football coach and math teacher at our FHS. She was an avid fan of the Flyers and BC football, and an active parishioner of St Tarcisius Church. This will bring back many good memories. When the Thanksgiving game is played in Framingham, I call the non-emergency line at the FPD and ask "who won the game?" The last two years an Officer Galvani answered the phone. I asked him this Nov. if he were related to our Frank. He is a cousin, I think. I thanked him and the Galvanis for their long service to our town.
Dick
As you can see it is hard to forget the special people that made up " our town " a special memory for coach and math teacher, Francis Galvani. I too remember him well, also Virginia and Lena, the Galvani sisters, who worked with me at Ken's Steak House in the long ago.
Wednesday, January 16, 2013
Small Town America Framingham Bob Paul's bakery
Oh! What a bakery , we would come down the street from the high school to +Dennis Paul's father's bakery. It was on the same side as The Crown, but we never went in the Crown, there was a different crowd that went there.. Remember The Crown? Who was it that wore peg pants, slicked back hair, and was a real picture of the time....???Do you remember? He was cute, and had really dark hair in a duck tail.
We found glorified cupcakes at the bakery and Wow! My other favorite was a cookie filled with orange peel, lemon peel , raisins and ??? Oh was that good! I still try and recreate the cookie. The glorified cupcake was covered with a red jam either strawberry or raspberry and dipped in coconut....Yikes, my mouth is watering as I remember the goodies. He was a hard working man, like all our Dad's were.
We found glorified cupcakes at the bakery and Wow! My other favorite was a cookie filled with orange peel, lemon peel , raisins and ??? Oh was that good! I still try and recreate the cookie. The glorified cupcake was covered with a red jam either strawberry or raspberry and dipped in coconut....Yikes, my mouth is watering as I remember the goodies. He was a hard working man, like all our Dad's were.
Tuesday, January 15, 2013
Sunday, January 13, 2013
Dungarees to jeans
Everyone dressed up to go to school and everyone changed into play clothes when we got home from school In those days a lot of railroad employees lived in our neighborhood and walked to work in their bib overalls. So our first play clothes, at least for Fankie and me, were bibb overalls. I hated them! I was so happy when dungarees came into being....you now call them jeans.
Thursday, January 10, 2013
Small Town America Framingham our museum
Having trouble viewing this email?Click here +Anne Murphy is doing a great job with our museum on the common in Framingham. If you have been away for years, you will enjoy seeing what is happening in our little museum. Make a point to visit when you come back to Framingham for a visit. |
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Ballerina - Vaughn Monroe (1947)
It was about this time that Lorraine Rossi and I were listening to records at her house and we were learning to jitter bug...She was teaching me, heel toe, heel toe! We were peeking out the window at the new boy in the neighborhood.
+William Fox. "Have you met him yet?" she asked.
+William Fox. "Have you met him yet?" she asked.
Small Town America Framingham, phones
+Arelene Scansaroli Chao, would call me on this phone, my number was 8662. Before this there was another style that was a stick with a speaker and a hanging ear piece...do you remember? We had one phone in the house, and party lines, your choice of private, or a two party or a three party line. You answered your ring....and no listening in!
Wednesday, January 9, 2013
Monday, January 7, 2013
Books : Framingham History Center, FHC Museum Shop
Books : Framingham History Center, FHC Museum Shop Our + Framingham History Center is much more active than it ever was, including a museum shop, where you can buy my book with all proceeds to the museum. It is not listed on the site yet, but I am sure it will be soon, or contact +Anne Murphy who is the Executive Director.
Small Town America Framingham..we had a roadhouse?
Who remembers the name of the roadhouse on the reservoir. It was on Route 9 across from Chapel Hill...where the oriental restaurant is now...I belive it was a man's name, and his first name might have been Ed. I had the name on the tip of my tongue and it has slipped away...do you remember it? I think it was still there in the late 40's and early 1950's.+Richard Belli+Pat Rotelli? +Richard Rotelli, +Arlene Chao, do you guys know?
Small Town America FraminghamThe Winiker Band with Cindy Gale at the Sherborn Inn
The Winiker Band with Cindy Gale at the Sherborn Inn In our times...Ed Winniker ( I thought was from Framingham) played the Parker House in Boston for years. +Bo Winniker and +Bill Winniker carry on the tradition and as you can see here, with fun for seniors at the Sherborn Inn. They found a new talent in Cindy Gale. Do you remember the Parker House, up near the State House on the hill in Boston? You can see the Winniker Band around the area and even ask them to perform for your own event. Bring back nostalgia!
Saturday, January 5, 2013
The Collings Foundation near Framingham in Stowe, antique planes, cars
Wings of Freedom Schedule - The Collings Foundation If you decided to read the book, A Higher Call, that I recommend, you might be interested in the museum that is just minutes away from Framingham. We love going there in our antique car to enjoy the events. Google for event dates.
+Bob Collings
Co-Founder of the Collings Foundation
+Rob Collings
Chief Executive Officer and Chief Pilot
+Bob Collings
Co-Founder of the Collings Foundation
+Rob Collings
Chief Executive Officer and Chief Pilot
Friday, January 4, 2013
Small Town America Framingham, Altobelli's market
Do you remember Altobelli's market? Remember the football games with Natick, and crazy legs Joe....? In those days we wore lumber jackets, do you remember? We could drive into the 'Garden' in Boston, and even get a parking space on the street outside the Garden....for the hockey game. Remember Steubenville? Storyville? You can comment on here if you want to contribute.
Thursday, January 3, 2013
Framingham and Frank Sinatra fever
Wow! Virginia Rossi was my friend, Lorraine's older sister, and she was swooning over Frank Sinatra. Who was he, we asked? We were soon to know! Girls would collapse at his appearances in swoons! We had never heard of this ever happening before...then the whole world was in a Sinatra spin and the radios all over Framingham, and at Garino's music store in Framingham kept us with Frank Sinatra music for years to come! As I say in my book, we went through our school years with Frank Sinatra's music.
Frank Sinatra - Be Careful Its My Heart 1942 Tommy Dorsey Orchestra
The wonderful sounds of a winter evening in our Sears and Roebuck bungalow , on Hollis Street, Framingham, Mass. The family gathered in our small living room, around the radio, as Dad read the paper, and Mom knitted socks for the soldiers under the small lamp that stood between their chairs. Lights were probably out in the other rooms which we were not using. The lighting was not great at night. I would get in bed and when it got quiet take out my flashlight and read under the covers...Yes, I think I got caught, more than once.
Dean Martin - Let it Snow!
This song came out after the war . We would walk along Hollis street toward Memorial School, suddenly from a pile of snow plowed high off the road, on the other side of the street, Richie and Bobby Seriac would attack us girls with snowballs. We would run for our lives...as they threw everything they must have had packed in a pile and ready!
Small town America Old Shopper's World, Framingham, MA, where was?
Here is a video on Youtube, from a Framingham person that shows the end of the old Shoppers World.Wonder if there is anything showing the old drive in and Weston nurseries original location on Rt 9 before it went to Hopkinton. The sewer beds were between Weston Nurseries and Route 9...as my husband Howard recalls it, and as I recall seeing it as a child driving along Rt 9. The drive in theater was just beyond Shoppers World to the East. Can anyone pin point it? Maybe there is an old map around ?
Small Town America..Iron Framingham signs
We had an iron sign on the corner of Waushakum Blvd and Hollis Street for all my young years and even when I became an adult. It said Framingham, and a story of the town. That disappeared one day and no one knows where it went. Was it the only iron sign that introduced Framingham at its boundary with Ashland, or was there another steel sign up on Rt 135 at the other border with Ashland? I thought that there might be. Does anyone know? +Crispin Jachowicz says yes, there where signs also on Rt 135 at the town line.
Wednesday, January 2, 2013
Mambo Italiano: Sophia Loren
My best friend Barbara Volpicelli and I , like everyone in the world loved Sophia Loren, and Barbara even looked like her!
"You'll Never Know" (Vera Lynn, 1943)
A song that brings me back to my days of walking to school on Hollis Street, Framingham, Mass., or sitting at our small kitchen table with my brother Frank as we wrapped bandages for the soldiers with Mom by the heat of the kerosene stove.
"Something to Remember You By" (Vera Lynn, 1941)
A song that brings me back to the 1940's and our radio...was it a Philco? Songs of longing for the boys that were leaving for a dark awful war.
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